I’ve always been a supporter of women in the tech industry. I have been lucky to work with quite a few during my career. They have ranged from managers to developers with similar experience to those I have mentored. Through it all, I knew that as women in the industry, they had overcome larger hurdles to get to where they were than I had to.
Up until now, I think I simply acknowledged the fact that the gender issue existed and agreed that it needed to change. I can look back, put the pieces together, and see various occurrences where women I know have been discounted, pushed aside, or looked over. I look back with disappointment with myself that I didn’t recognize the pattern.
It’s bothered me a lot lately. Whether it’s guilt for not seeing things sooner, or the fact that I work with a group of incredible women who I want to see succeed, or because I continue to hear stories of women I respect being degraded even today, it makes me angry.
Lately, I’ve felt very over-protective of the women I work with in the tech industry (either directly or through social media). I’m not sure if I have the right to feel that way because despite the fact that I support them, I don’t know if I’ve actually done anything to help them. I don’t quite know what I should do. When should I intervene? When should I step back and provide space? Maybe the answers are right in front of me and I’m just blind to them?
I’ve never been opposed to asking for help and this is definitely one area where I could use it.